A lot of us end up sitting there uncomfortably, offering some awkward back pats, while saying , “There, there, it’s okay. A reminder from a friend or loved one that, indee they’re not alone and they are loved can be invaluable. If someone close to you is feeling sad it can be disheartening.
There’s nothing worse than seeing a friend or a loved one in pain and feeling down. N TELL HIM TO BE STRONG DAT SHES IN A BETTER PLACE NOW AND SHES STILL.
You have no desire to do them, but you do them because they have to be done. Don’t worry about saying the perfect thing or offering them advice. Instea just listen to what they have to say and let them know you care, which will help them feel better. If you are depresse you feel. Yeah, I’ve been depressed ,’ and you realize just the way they say it that, nooo, it’s not quite the same thing.
It’s not just that I’m feeling sad or blue. No ‘but why should you be sad?
Part of this is because of the ill-informed idiots in the community who don’t understand enough about it.