Friday, June 3, 2016

Do feelings of love come back after depression

When you love someone with depression it can feel as though. The pain and hopelessness of depression is immense and to keep existing day after day under the. If you have lost love because of your depression , or the person you love left because of their depression - you just have to give it time.


People with depression love often, and often love more than many can understand. Do feelings come back after the depression.

My dear, What kind of health scare did you have? Have you been screened for medical causes of depression(ex: thyroid etc.). Yes depression can cause you to lose love. Dont worry everything will be fine.


I would suggest you to give a shock to your body by doing exercise till you get very tired. And it is true what your therapist is saying, it is alright if he asks you a question then you reply ‘ that you cant feel anything’. But focusing on not feeling anything will make you be in the negative aspect (the state that you are in right now).

It takes away all that is positive in feeling and replaces it with all that is negative. It does not in truth stop the love it just takes away the feelings and the ability to show that love. I want a future with him. Rebuilding trust doesn’t come from medication or therapy or endlessly worrying about depression. Instead it comes from doing things together, talking to each other – letting life happen – while remaining sensitive to signs of relapse.


And yes, good feelings do tend to return if you get. It’s the one that causes depressed partners to say they’re no longer in love and have never loved their partners. It’s called anhedonia, the inability to feel pleasure or interest in anything. For me, it was a kind of deadness.


Since depression is a condition that can vary from day to day, that active side of pain can be the driving motive. But there is another dimension of depression that can lead to the idea of escape as the answer. You want this but you don’t want this. You do so knowing that when depression comes you will be one body short to feel the emptiness.


But you know this is the right thing because this is the end of them as a piece of your heart and because you have fallen out of love. Sometimes depression can make people feel as though they are just out of reach and loving someone with depression can be lonely, frustrating, painful and deeply worrying.

If you’re close to someone with depression, you might feel as though you’re not making a difference, but that’s what depression does – it’s the dirty little liar that tries to pull the fight out of all of us – those who have the illness and those who care who would do anything to make it better for them. The key is getting help for depression - attack the root of the problem. Can we drastically change the way we feel because our depression has changed? Last week he told me he had fallen out of love with me, we are trying to work things out but he is finding it hard to feel happy about anything. Has anyone else had this problem?


That their depressed partner has lost feelings of love ? I have suggested he goes back on the medication and he did start back with a counsellor last week. Suffering from depression feels like looking into a mirror everyday and seeing a pathetic version of yourself. Every reflective surface reveals the same disturbing secret.


The illness is like having earmuffs involuntarily installed on your feelings.

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